Sexy Talk ~ Aphrodisiacs from A to Z

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Sexy talk is an art. After all, what one finds sexy another can find gross. Clearly, it's important to tailor your talk to your partner's wants and needs. Some folks enjoy cutesy-sexy talk, others funny-sexy, while yet others want it down-and-dirty-sexy. And, of course, there are folks who don't want to hear anything but their and their partners' labored breaths. Diff'rent strokes. (Heh heh.) All I know is, if a fella tries the funny-sexy with me, we're done for the night. I can't get my freak on when I'm giggling. (Take note, fellas.)

Y U SO SEX-AY?
Sex being a sensual experience, appealing to the sense of hearing is just one more way to rile a body up. Too, hearing what your partner wants to do to you while it's happening can shoot a charge to the brain (and subsequently, the naughty bits) like no other. And sometimes, demanding what you want aloud can be just the thing that makes the parties involved see fireworks. W00F.

Mind you pay attention to your lover's reactions to what you say: whimpers, moans, ragged gasps can all be very positive reinforcements. Loud gasps of shock and outrage, however...well, that's the way the nookie crumbles.

RECIPES

• Dirty Talk: How To Say All The Right Things In The Bedroom
• How To Talk Dirty Without Freaking Her Out
• How to Talk Sexy (and Not Sound Stupid)

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